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Week 37 · September 7–13 · Proverbs 1–4; 15–16; 22; 31; Ecclesiastes 1–3; 11–12

Week 37
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Before You Teach

Teacher Quick Brief

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Teacher Quick Brief

What This Week Is About

Proverbs is a collection of wisdom from a loving parent to a child: trust God, speak kindly, walk the right path, and life will be better. Ecclesiastes follows with a harder truth: even a person who gains every good thing and becomes very wise can still feel empty without God at the center. Together, both books land on the same answer: trust the Lord and keep His commandments.

Main Points To Teach

  • Trusting God with your whole heart is wiser than trusting only your own ideas, even when your own ideas seem good.
  • The words we choose can either calm people down or stir up anger, kind words are a choice we make.
  • No matter what we try or accomplish, the most important thing is to remember God and walk His path.

What Is Happening In The Scripture Story

A father is teaching his son the most important things he knows. He says: search for wisdom like you would search for buried treasure, and let God direct your steps. Proverbs 3 gives the clearest command: trust God, not just yourself, and He will show you the right path. Proverbs 15 adds that a soft, kind answer stops a fight before it starts. Later, in Ecclesiastes, a very wise and wealthy man tries everything, wealth, projects, pleasure, knowledge, and finds that none of it is enough. His final answer after all of that searching matches what Proverbs said at the beginning: fear God and keep His commandments.

Why It Matters For Older Primary

Children ages 8-10 face daily moments of trusting their own instincts over what they know is right, leaving out a friend, choosing the short cut, snapping back when someone is unkind. The image of leaning on something sturdy versus leaning on something wobbly is concrete enough for this age to feel in their bodies, not just hear in their heads. These chapters give them a simple, memorable phrase to carry into the week.

Recommended path

A 25-minute lesson

Mix and match to create one 25-minute interactive lesson. Swap any activity for an option below.

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  1. Move 1, Opening Connection: Run the Leaning Object (default)
  2. Hold up the broom and the wall
  3. Ask the class question
  4. One minute
  5. Move 2, Scripture Discovery: Read Proverbs 3:5-6 (default) together with the hand actions from the CFM teaching children section
  6. Two questions
  7. Six minutes
  8. Then read one verse from Ecclesiastes 12:13 as a second voice, one sentence bridge: "Here is what a man learned after he tried everything else." One minute
  9. Move 3, Activity: Run Activity 1, the Sturdy and Wobbly Path game (default)
  10. Twelve minutes
  11. Move 4, Take-Home Challenge: State the challenge, invite one child to share a feeling, add thirty seconds of testimony inside the close
  12. Four minutes

If you are late, skip to the activity

Full Lesson Flow

Teaching Outline

Use the sections below as a menu. Swap cards and activities to keep the class interactive.

Opening Connection

Activity options

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The Leaning Object

Bring a broom (or a ruler standing upright) and point to a solid wall in the room. Before you say anything, lean your own body against the wall. Then try to lean against the broom without holding it, let it wobble and fall.

Ask: "Which one would you rather lean on if you were really tired and needed something to hold you up?"

Let two or three children answer, then say: "Proverbs, which is a book of wisdom in our scriptures, says we have a choice every day. We can lean on our own understanding, our own ideas about what's right, or we can lean on the Lord. Today we are going to find out what that means."

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The Leaning Object

Bring a broom (or a ruler standing upright) and point to a solid wall in the room. Before you say anything, lean your own body against the wall. Then try to lean against the broom without holding it, let it wobble and fall.

Ask: "Which one would you rather lean on if you were really tired and needed something to hold you up?"

Let two or three children answer, then say: "Proverbs, which is a book of wisdom in our scriptures, says we have a choice every day. We can lean on our own understanding, our own ideas about what's right, or we can lean on the Lord. Today we are going to find out what that means."

The Hard Question (alternate)

Ask children to close their eyes and think: "Has there ever been a time when you were sure you had a good idea, and it turned out to be wrong? Or a time when you did something because everyone else was doing it and it didn't go well?"

Let two children share briefly, then bridge: "Today's scriptures are about what happens when we trust only ourselves, and what happens instead when we trust the Lord."

Scripture Discovery

Paths

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Proverbs 3:5-6

Read the verses aloud together, or have partners take turns reading one verse each.

Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

Teach the hand actions from Come, Follow Me: make a heart with both hands for "trust in the Lord with all thine heart"; lean sideways for "lean not unto thine own understanding"; walk in place for "he shall direct thy paths."

Run through the verse with actions twice.

Discussion questions:

  • What does "lean not unto thine own understanding" mean in regular words? (Trusting only what you think, without asking God.)
  • What does God promise if we acknowledge Him in all our ways?

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Proverbs 3:5-6

Read the verses aloud together, or have partners take turns reading one verse each.

Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

Teach the hand actions from Come, Follow Me: make a heart with both hands for "trust in the Lord with all thine heart"; lean sideways for "lean not unto thine own understanding"; walk in place for "he shall direct thy paths."

Run through the verse with actions twice.

Discussion questions:

  • What does "lean not unto thine own understanding" mean in regular words? (Trusting only what you think, without asking God.)
  • What does God promise if we acknowledge Him in all our ways?

Ecclesiastes 12:13 (second voice, include in 25-minute path as a one-minute bridge)

After Proverbs 3, read this single verse and let it land:

Let us hear the conclusion of the whole matter: Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man. (Ecclesiastes 12:13)

Tell the class: "A man named the Preacher spent his whole life trying everything, wealth, big projects, learning, music, everything, and after all of it, this is what he said was the only thing that mattered. It matches exactly what Proverbs said."

Ask: "Why do you think both books end up at the same answer?"

Core Gospel Principles

Principle 1, Trusting God Is Wiser Than Trusting Only Yourself (say this aloud in the 25-minute path)

God sees everything we cannot see. When we trust only our own ideas, we are working with only part of the information. When we trust God and ask for His help, we are working with a wiser partner. This is not about being confused or weak, it is about being smart enough to know that God's understanding is bigger than ours.

Principle 2, Kind Words Change the Room (depth)

Proverbs 15:1 teaches that a soft answer turns away wrath. That means one kind, quiet response can stop a fight that harsh words would have made worse. This is not weakness, it is one of the most powerful choices we can make. God pays attention to the words we use with each other.

Principle 3, The Right Path Gets Brighter (depth)

Proverbs 4:18 compares walking the righteous path to the morning light, it starts small but grows brighter as you walk on it. Every good choice makes the next good choice a little easier to see.

Interactive Learning Activities

Activity options

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Sturdy and Wobbly Path

Type: Physical Activity

Materials: Two pieces of paper or two index cards, one labeled "My Own Idea" and one labeled "Trust the Lord." Optional: a broom or ruler and a solid chair.

Steps:

  1. Place the "My Own Idea" card on one side of the room and "Trust the Lord" on the other.
  2. Read a short scenario aloud. (Examples: "Your friend dares you to say something mean about another kid." / "You don't feel like praying tonight but something is bothering you." / "You think you know a shortcut but your parents say to go a different way.")
  3. Children walk to the card that shows what they think would happen if they leaned on their own idea first, versus leaning on the Lord.
  4. After each scenario, one child explains their choice.
  5. Close by saying Proverbs 3:6 together: "He shall direct thy paths."

Zero-prep alternate: Skip the cards. Ask children to stand up for "Trust the Lord" and sit down for "Lean on own understanding" as you read scenarios aloud.

Connection to scripture: Each scenario is a living picture of Proverbs 3:5-6.

Discussion question: "Why is it sometimes hard to trust the Lord even when we know we should?"

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Sturdy and Wobbly Path

Type: Physical Activity

Materials: Two pieces of paper or two index cards, one labeled "My Own Idea" and one labeled "Trust the Lord." Optional: a broom or ruler and a solid chair.

Steps:

  1. Place the "My Own Idea" card on one side of the room and "Trust the Lord" on the other.
  2. Read a short scenario aloud. (Examples: "Your friend dares you to say something mean about another kid." / "You don't feel like praying tonight but something is bothering you." / "You think you know a shortcut but your parents say to go a different way.")
  3. Children walk to the card that shows what they think would happen if they leaned on their own idea first, versus leaning on the Lord.
  4. After each scenario, one child explains their choice.
  5. Close by saying Proverbs 3:6 together: "He shall direct thy paths."

Zero-prep alternate: Skip the cards. Ask children to stand up for "Trust the Lord" and sit down for "Lean on own understanding" as you read scenarios aloud.

Connection to scripture: Each scenario is a living picture of Proverbs 3:5-6.

Discussion question: "Why is it sometimes hard to trust the Lord even when we know we should?"

Soft Answer Practice (alternate)

Type: Role-Play and Acting

Materials: None.

Steps:

  1. Explain that Proverbs 15:1 says a soft answer turns away wrath.
  2. Whisper a scenario to one child: "Your little brother just knocked over your building blocks on purpose."
  3. That child shows a harsh response first, then a soft response.
  4. The class votes thumbs up for soft, thumbs down for harsh.
  5. Repeat with two more scenarios. Rotate the child acting.

Connection to scripture: Proverbs 15:1, children practice it with their bodies, not just their ears.

Discussion question: "What makes a soft answer hard to give when you are angry?"

My Path Card (alternate)

Type: Creative Expression

Materials: Half sheets of paper or index cards, pencils or crayons.

Steps:

  1. Give each child a card.
  2. Ask them to draw a path, curvy or straight, going from one side to the other.
  3. At the start of the path, they write or draw something hard they face this week (a choice, a person, a feeling).
  4. At the end of the path, they write "He shall direct my paths" or draw a heart and the word "Trust."
  5. Children share with a partner if they want to.

No cross symbol. Use a heart or a winding path with light at the end.

Connection to scripture: Proverbs 3:6 and Proverbs 4:18, the path that grows brighter.

Discussion question: "What does it feel like to walk on a path when you can see where you are going versus when it is dark?"

Life Application Bridge

Apply A, At School This Week (default)

Ask children: "This week, when something happens that makes you want to react without thinking, a friend is unkind, a test is hard, someone leaves you out, try asking one question before you respond: What would trusting the Lord look like right now?"

Give them thirty seconds to think of one specific moment this week when they could try this.

Apply B, Kind Words at Home (alternate)

Ask children to think of one person at home they sometimes speak harshly to, a sibling, a parent. Challenge them to try one soft answer this week instead of the first words that come to mind.

Testimony Time

Ask gently: "Has anyone ever prayed for help and felt like Heavenly Father helped them figure out what to do? You don't have to share the whole story, you can just say yes."

After a few responses, close quietly: "The scriptures we read today are thousands of years old, and they are still true for us this week. Heavenly Father really does direct our paths when we trust Him. I know that."

Take-Home Challenge

This week, when you face a choice, big or small, stop and say Proverbs 3:5 to yourself: "Trust in the Lord with all thine heart." Then ask Heavenly Father for help before you decide. Notice what happens.

Teacher Tips

If you are running late, skip straight to Activity 1, the Sturdy and Wobbly Path game carries the whole lesson on its own. Keep the Take-Home Challenge even if everything else gets cut; it is the point the children carry out the door. The leaning object from the opening works even without a broom, simply lean against the wall yourself and ask children to try leaning against a piece of paper held flat in the air.

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