Opening question
Think of a conversation this month that didn't end the way you wanted, maybe with a spouse, a child, a coworker, or a neighbor. You don't need to share it. What feelings were you left with afterward? Elder Lebethoa says many of us know that feeling, and he tells us where he went to find out what to do next.
Opening question
Think of a conversation this month that didn't end the way you wanted, maybe with a spouse, a child, a coworker, or a neighbor. You don't need to share it. What feelings were you left with afterward? Elder Lebethoa says many of us know that feeling, and he tells us where he went to find out what to do next.
Story hook
Elder Lebethoa's name, Thabo, means "joy." His wife's middle name, Gadifele, means "eternal." Put together, their names mean "eternal joy." But soon after they married, a discussion turned into their first serious argument, and they ended up giving each other the silent treatment. While he wondered what to do, the Savior's words in 3 Nephi 11 about contention came to his mind and showed him how to make it right.
The buried can of coffee
When Elder Lebethoa was a mission leader in South Africa, a missionary told him about a man they were teaching. After reading the Book of Mormon, the man took a shovel, dug a hole in his garden, poured a newly bought large tin of coffee into it, and buried it. Elder Lebethoa says the Spirit showed the man what he needed to change, and the man acted on it.