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Elder David A. Bednar · Of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles · Saturday Morning Session

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Enduring to the end is not grim determination but a joyful, lifelong process of being possessed by charity, the pure love of Christ, until we are transformed to become more like Him.

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Sunday: What does it really mean to endure to the end?

This Sunday we're discussing Elder Bednar's April 2025 talk 'All Who Have Endured Valiantly.' He invites us to rethink a phrase we've heard our whole lives. He teaches that enduring to the end isn't about gritting our teeth through mortality, it's about being gradually transformed by the pure love of Christ until that love possesses us completely. You can read or listen at ChurchofJesusChrist.org. As you do, ponder: In what ways does your current view of 'enduring to the end' feel more like surviving than becoming?

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Opening question

Think of a time you had to endure something hard, a long project, a difficult season, a physical challenge. What did 'enduring' feel like in that moment? Now, with that feeling fresh, I want to ask: when you hear the phrase 'endure to the end' in a gospel setting, does it feel different, or about the same?

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Enduring to the end is becoming possessed by the pure love of Christ

Elder Bednar teaches that 'endure to the end' is not about white-knuckling through mortality. It is the ongoing, joyful process of being spiritually transformed, of receiving charity, the pure love of Christ, as a spiritual gift until it doesn't just belong to us, but possesses us. The goal isn't survival; it's becoming new creatures in Christ.

Enduring to the end is 'the joyous quest of a lifetime, a pressing forward with faith in Jesus Christ in a gradual process of trusting in and receiving help from our Savior to become more like Him.', Elder Bednar
Elder David A. Bednar

Ask the class

  • 1.Elder Bednar distinguishes between possessing charity and being possessed by charity. What do you think the difference looks like in a real person's life?
  • 2.He says the Savior 'turned outward in love and service' when facing pain and adversity, while our natural tendency is to turn inward. Where in your own life have you noticed that pull, and what has helped you turn outward instead?

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Charity is a gift we receive, not just a behavior we perform

Elder Bednar is careful to say spiritual gifts, including charity, are given by God according to His will, not earned purely through personal discipline. That means our role is to plead for this gift and stay open to it, not just try harder on our own.

Ask the class

  • 1.If charity is something we receive rather than manufacture, how does that change the way you might pray about or seek after it?

Counsel together

Quorum / Relief Society business

  • As a quorum or Relief Society, what could we do together, not just individually, to help each other turn outward when life pushes us inward?
  • Elder Bednar says we receive charity 'in due time' following the same grace-for-grace pattern the Savior followed. How do we as a class help each other be patient with that gradual process?

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Close

This week, notice one moment when your natural instinct is to turn inward, toward self-interest or discouragement, and make a deliberate choice to turn outward toward someone else's need. Come ready to share what you noticed next Sunday if you feel comfortable.

Elder Bednar testified that as our love for the Savior grows, we can receive 'spiritual perspective, the Lord's empowering grace, and exceedingly great and indescribable joy.'

Your witness: Share what it means personally to you that enduring to the end is a promise of what we can become, not just a finish line to survive to.

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